Sunday, February 17, 2008

The best mail out of 5311 useful messages in my mailbox

ನಾನು : Z.....please read this !! This is the best mail I have got !! This is from one of my best friends. ಎಷ್ಟು ಅರ್ಥಪೂರ್ಣವಾಗಿದೆ ಅಂದ್ರೆ ಇದು...ಕಣ್ಣಲ್ಲಿ ನನಗೆ ನೀರು ಬಂತು...ನಿಜವಾಗಲು...that too without going to the theatre !!

Z : ಹೌದಾ ? ಹಾಗಾದ್ರೆ ಇದು ಯಾವುದೋ extra-ordinary ಈಮೈಲ್ ಇರ್ಬೇಕು .paste ಮಾಡು...ಓದ್ತಿನಿ.

ನಾನು :

The woman in your life...very well expressed...

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER"



Z :superru !!! fantasticcu !! ಸಖತ್ !! ನನಗೂ ಅಳು ಬರ್ತಿದೆ !! sniff !! sniff !! sniff !!!

ನಾನು : ಹೌದಾ ? ನೀನು KRS dam gate open ಆದಾಗ ಬರೋ ಕಾವೇರಿ ಪ್ರವಾಹದ ಥರ ಅಳ್ತಿಯಾ !! ನೋಡಲಾರೆ !!
line on hold !!

6 comments:

Jayashankar said...

aLu barO ondu scenu illamma idaralli.
nimage Eke banthO gothilla...

noDamma idu ellarigu anvayisuvudilla.

who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you - >100% suLLu.(reason nimge gothu...)
to adopt your home,-> adopt aagovargu enu guarantee illamma.
cook food at the end of the day, ->naaLe ge advance cookinga?
to be a servant, a cook, -> adakke bereyavaru irthare kelavu maneli....
she can drink and dance -> 100% nija... kelavaru irthaare..

Parisarapremi said...

ನಾನು ಇದಕ್ಕೆ ಕಮೆಂಟಿಸುವುದಿಲ್ಲ.

ಕಮೆಂಟಿಸ ಹೊರಟರೆ, ಮನುವಿನಿಂದ ಅನೇಕರು ಬೈಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳುತ್ತಾರೆ.

Srikanth - ಶ್ರೀಕಾಂತ said...

ಇದಿಕ್ಕೆ ಕಮೆಂಟ್ ಅಂತ ಬರೀತಾ ಹೋದ್ರೆ ಪುಟಗಟ್ಲೆ ಬರೀಬೇಕಾಗತ್ತೆ ನೋಡಿ. ಹಾಗಾಗಿ ಹೆಚ್ಚು ಹೇಳುವುದಿಲ್ಲ.

ಹೇಳುವುದೆರಡೇ ವಾಕ್ಯ - ಈ ಈ-ಮೇಲ್ ಓದಿ ತಿಳಿದುಕೊಳ್ಳಬೇಕಾದ್ದು ಬೇಕಾದಷ್ಟಿದೆ. ಇದನ್ನು ತಿಳಿದುಕೊಂಡವರೂ ಇದ್ದಾರೆ; ಅಂಥವರಿಗೆ 'ಭೇಷ್'

Bhargava said...

Enri nimma favourite book ge (Manusmruti) mukakke hodeyo haage ide.

ಗಂಡಭೇರುಂಡ said...

commentatiita ;-)

Sridhar said...

I DO appreciate her.....